Monday, October 29, 2012

Sometimes Mountains Move.

Last Wednesday, as I was in line to leave the parking garage at school, I read an email from our case manager at Transgenomic (the lab with the $17,000 test that might be able to diagnose KayTar). It said that she had spoken to our insurance and they had denied our appeal again, for the THIRD time. But she offered me an interest-free payment plan, you know, in case the interest was what was holding us back...not the $17,000! It was extremely frustrating and although I am not a crier (I hate crying), my eyes welled up with tears and I had to choke back quite a bit of emotion that was threatening to escape through my eyeballs. I vented my frustration to a couple of people, but otherwise kept it to myself. It was depressing and dwelling on it was not going to be helpful for me, so I made a decision to talk to KayTar's mito specialist about an alternate route to diagnosis and to find out if MDCP (Medically Dependent Children's Plan, something we are trying to get K into, but that is another post) might cover it...and then I decided to let it go and choose joy. I wasn't super HAPPY about choosing joy, but at some point, I just had to accept that letting myself wallow would not make me feel better and it would not change the outcome. I would have to wait and see what came next and decide to go for another round of appeal when I had more information. And I prayed.

I don't talk about my faith much here, but it is an integral part of who I am. I pray about things in our life and for people we care about and things going on in their lives, too...but in praying over our life, I rarely ask Him to change circumstances or fix things. I believe that He allows us to be challenged for a reason and if He wanted to intervene, He could and would. He knows my heart better than I do, I'm sure, and He doesn't need me to tell Him what I desperately want or need. I don't pray for KayTar's healing, I pray for wisdom for those caring for her, strength for Josh and I, joy for her, diligence to fight through the battles we face, and so forth. He created her just as she is and I don't pray away the struggles that come with it, I do my best to pray through them. Sometimes when I am too tired to pray for strength, I just simply pray that He would move someone else to pray for me. I know that mountains have a purpose and it isn't my job to tell Him where they belong, even when I am tired. He knows. So on Wednesday, I did not ask Him to fix it...instead, I told Him I was exhausted. I told Him that I was tired of jumping hurdles and just wanted to lay down in the middle of the track. I maybe flopped onto my bed to illustrate my point. I asked for strength and wisdom in moving forward, because dramatically tossing myself down in the middle of the metaphorical track was not a realistic choice, and I thanked Him for the encouraging people He has placed in my life. There was more, but that was the meat and potatoes of it. I felt kind of better. Less wallowy, more ready to find some joy and move forward.

Today, my cell phone rang. It was an out of area number and I answered it because I thought it might be related to Mito Camp (this weekend!). Instead, it was a manager at Transgenomic. She said that unfortunately, there was a lab error resulting in KayTar's test sample being ruined and they would need another sample. We've had this happen before, so it was not a real shocker. I said something like, "Well, we're having such trouble getting insurance to approve it anyway---" and she interrupted me and said, "Yes, I know you've been working with J to get it covered, but whether or not that happens, we will be running KayTar's sample immediately after receiving it and there will be no charge to you either way." And I said, incredulously, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!" She was very polite and said, "No ma'am, I've noted it in the chart. There will be no charge for the testing."  Then some very different emotions attempted to escape through my eyeballs again and I tried to suppress the urge to jump around until I was off the phone. It was miraculous! I don't know if the test will give us answers, but today it doesn't really matter. There was a mountain in the way and then it was gone! There are billions of more important things happening in the world today and every day, bigger prayers that beg to be answered, and I can't explain why He chose to move this mountain...for me...today. I just know that He did. Sometimes mountains move, and it is unbelievably breathtaking when it happens.

8 comments:

Magpie said...

Happy. Hoping it gives you what you need.

Just Another Pastor's Wife said...

It is amazing when He moves a mountain for you!

Corinn said...

YAAAAAAAAAAAY! Here's hoping for the best, and some ANSWERS.

Gretchen said...

Over and over, He shows us, that we need to give it over to Him. My life is so much more peaceful and easier when I do this.

Loved your post--could say the same things. Very happy for you re: the test as well!

dlefler said...

I am so, so happy for you! This is such a relief, and a real life miracle. Praying for answers for you guys!

ewe are here said...

Yay! I hope it gives you some of the answers you've been looking for for so long.

Becca said...

I think I have some emotion escaping out of my eyeballs for you too right about now. Such great news. And yes, miraculous!

Shellye said...

Thank you so much for sharing about your faith, and reminding me that God can still move mountains. You have no idea how much I needed that. I'm so glad He moved that mountain for you. What a mighty God...